The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

The Kivin Method, also known as "Tahitian cunnilingus," is an amazing oral sex technique that will delight any woman. It's a method that can give a woman a rapid, intense orgasm. Best of all, it's easy to learn and do. No tongue gymnastics are required.

Have her get comfortable in a reclined position, her legs open. Make sure that you kiss, suck, and lick her thighs, her navel and all of the areas around her vagina. Do not make premature contact with her vagina. As she slowly becomes more aroused, continue teasing her with your tongue and lips and slowly massage her vagina.

When she is ready, position your head so that it is perpendicular to her body. Place two fingers on either side of the hood of her clitoris and slowly run your tongue back and forth, and over and under the hood. In other words, your head should be at a 90 degree angle to her, and you will be licking up and down, but because you are perpendicular, your tongue will travel from side to side.

Place the flat of your thumb or finger on her perineum - the area of skin between the anus and the vagina - and gently apply pressure without moving. The pressure on the perineum stimulates the anal sphincter muscles, which are the strongest muscles involved in female orgasm and really heighten the pleasure. Many women experience a deeper orgasm from the connection they feel between their clitoris and their perineum.

Continue stimulating her clitoral hood, slowly increasing your speed. As you feel her nearing orgasm, transfer your tongue to the head of her clitoris. Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.

Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. Oral sex done right can take your partner to new heights of pleasure and ecstasy! However, cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring technique, practice, and knowledge to get it right. To discover the forgotten oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she's never had an orgasm before!, click here.

4 Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina and direct stimulation of the clitoris.. My tutorial 5 Steps to Perfect Cunnilingus explains how to bring a woman to orgasm through oral sex, but there is more you can do to make cunnilingus enjoyable for her. When you reach the point in your oral lovemaking where she is highly aroused and ready for finger insertion, here are 4 advanced techniques you can try.

1) G-spot stimulation. G-spot stimulation works better than anything else you can do to cause a strong, prolonged orgasm. This "spot," between a penny and quarter in size, is a small mound of tissue inside the vagina, which has a high concentration of sexual nerves and produces hormones similar to those made by the male's prostate gland. To locate the G-spot, slide a finger inside her vagina, palm up. Curve your middle finger toward yourself gently as if you were gesturing to someone to "come here."

She must be excited for G-spot stimulation to have any real effect at all. It's not the ideal area for getting your lover aroused, but when she is excited, this area, more often than not, is the best way to bring her to orgasm. Work your way back to it gradually, teasing her with your fingers slowly and gently. It's easier to hit the right area with two fingers, but this may not be comfortable for her, depending on how "tight" she is at that moment.

When you have your fingers on the right area, try gently pressing. The movement should be rhythmic and hard, not quick. It's typically best if you're licking her clitoris, or near it, at the same time. The licking should seem to be the primary activity. When you find the right area, she should respond by getting more excited. The best basic technique, upon finding the G-spot, is to continue to slowly, rhythmically press on it, while licking her clitoris. This should cause her to build up to an orgasm.

2) Anal stimulation from inside the vagina. The vagina actually shares a wall, on one side, with the rectum. Not only does this mean that sexual stimulation is possible through anal intercourse, it also means that a similar sensation can be achieved without ever touching her anus by stimulating the side of her vagina where it shares nerves with her rectum.

This area is more or less one hundred eighty degrees around opposite from the G-spot. In other words, if you were to reach in and arch your finger to touch her G-spot, and then rotate your hand to face the exact other direction and make a similar (but flatter) motion, you've got the right area, the area where it would touch her rectum, inside. Press more with the length of your finger rather than the tip. It rarely works well to stimulate this early on. Usually, you need to not only build up to it, but even get her very excited and sensitive first. This technique works best, in most cases, as a change of pace, not the main attraction.

3) Back and forth. Once you have your partner used to G-spot stimulation, you can try, occasionally and for variety, switching back and forth between pressing her G-spot and pressing the length of your finger on the opposite side, as in technique number two. Sometimes you can even get to the point of doing one press on one side, and then on the other, back and forth, which can feel amazing. Most likely, though, it will work better if you switch every several seconds, not every time you press.

3) Stimulating the cervix. The cervix is yet another area where you definitely want to build up to stimulating as it can actually be painful to even touch if she's not excited enough. Don't ever touch the cervix if she's pregnant or using a contraceptive that fits over the cervix, such as an IUD or diaphragm. The cervix is also about 180 degrees around from the G-spot, but it's in much deeper. The cervix is not an abstract "area." It actually juts up like a little flesh mesa. It has an opening at its very "peak," but this is normally closed pretty tightly.

The best way to stimulate the cervix is to gently caress around the sides and base. Eventually, build up to circling it with one or two fingers, around and around, gently staying in contact with it so that she can feel the motion through the cervix itself. You may even try pressing directly on the tip with your finger or fingers in the way a penis might if it happened enter her at the right angle to hit her cervix. Stimulating the cervix is also something that works better as a change of pace, not the "main course" of the cunnilingus session unless she really gets into it.

When you first try these techniques, you may get a "What on earth are you doing?" reaction from your woman, especially to techniques two and four. However, as long as she adds, "No, I didn't say to stop," when you hesitate, keep doing what you're doing. New sensations in areas that neither you nor she have previously explored may be somewhat disconcerting to her, but, unless she tell you to stop, she likes them.

Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. Oral sex done right can take your partner to new heights of pleasure and ecstasy! However, cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring technique, practice, and knowledge to get it right. To discover the forgotten oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she's never had an orgasm before!, click here.

5 Steps to Perfect Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina and direct stimulation of the clitoris. A recent study showed that twice as many women orgasm from oral sex as from intercourse. Cunnilingus performed well will endear you to her like nothing else can. Follow these five steps for performing perfect cunnilingus on your woman.

1) Hands first. Spend some time kissing her lips, shoulders, breasts, and stomach. Stroke her lightly with your fingertips. Run your finger up and down between her labia, but don’t insert a finger. Instead, slowly tantalize her opening just a bit. Gently squeeze and pull on her lips. Use your hands to grab and caress her thighs, her tummy, and her pelvic arch. Tease her with your hands. Stimulate her as much as possible without directly touching her clitoris.

Many women enjoy a massage of the mons. The mons pubis (Latin, pubic mound) is the mound of skin on top the pubic bone above the vaginal opening. Take one or both of your hands and carefully move the mons and surrounding area much the same way you would massage someone's shoulders. Be careful not to press too hard or make too wide a circular movement.

2) Add your tongue. Move down between her legs and gently kiss, blow, stroke and nibble her belly, inner thighs and hips. Gently spread her legs and kiss her pubic mound. Nuzzle around for a few minutes, spending time with the different parts of her vulva. Flatten your tongue and use wide slow strokes to explore her inner and outer lips, her vagina, and her clitoris. Imagine licking an ice cream cone. Start at the perineum and lick up and around her clitoris and back down the other side. Lick up and down her labia, in the middle, around her opening. Pay attention to her lips. Slowly suck them in. Use your fingers at the same time to caress her, to open her up. Pay attention to her breathing. When she breathes faster, she's enjoying herself more. Take note of what she likes and repeat it.

3) Go for the clitoris. Once you know she’s aroused (i.e. if she’s told you or motioned so), you can then move to the clitoris. Give her clitoris a little lick, move back to other areas again, and then go back up and gently suck her clitoris into your mouth. Continue licking and sucking in various patterns. In general, women tend to like firm pressure and repetitive motion. Quick tongue flicks against the clitoris can be irritating. Hold her legs open like you are diving in and have to get every inch of her. Being exposed like this makes most women feel very, very sexy and aroused.

4) Use your fingers. When you sense that your partner is getting closer to orgasm, it's time to return to finger play. Here are four techniques to try.

• Fingers holding the vagina open. Holding the vaginal lips open makes the clitoris more taut and, thereby, more sensitive. Many women hold their own vaginal lips open when masturbating for this very reason. You can do this with one hand or two. If you use one hand, use the other to feel her tummy, breasts, or thighs. Hold her vagina open and just pay attention to the clitoris, remembering to alternate licking and sucking as well as taking a short break from the direct clitoral pressure to lick up and down her inner crease.


• Fingers on the clitoris. Many women love a finger or a thumb on the clitoris during oral sex. This is not to say you should stop licking. Just vary your technique to use your finger or thumb as the main stimulator, and then move your tongue around the other areas. This is a good technique if you are getting tired, and she is close to orgasm.


• Fingers in. Women often enjoy the feeling of penetration during oral sex. When fingering your partner, remember that not all women like four fingers in--at least not at first--so begin with two. Make sure she is lubricated enough (and by now she should be) and slowly insert two fingers into her vagina. This should cause her to gasp with pleasure. Run your fingers around her inner vaginal walls. If she is receptive, use another finger. Gently move your fingers in and out of her vagina as you lick and caress her clitoris. Ask her what speed works for her. Faster, slower, more fingers, or less: pleasing her is your objective here.


• Go for the G-spot. While you are fingering your partner, you might want to attempt to stimulate her G-spot. This little spot is on the upper (tummy) side of her vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches in. When you hit this spot, it will feel spongy and rougher than the rest of her vaginal wall. If you have your fingers in palm side up and rub on this spot HARD, she will likely gasp with intense pleasure. Even if she doesn’t have a G-spot orgasm right then, it's nice to try and will feel good to her regardless.

5) Bring her to orgasm. When you hear rapid, heavy breathing and feel her body start to tense up, whatever you do, don't stop doing what you're doing. She's probably about to have an orgasm. Begin to lick harder, suck in her clitoris, and use your fingers in her vagina to give her the insertion she wants. Press her legs more open and keep stimulating her. When she begins to orgasm, you will feel a contracting of her PC muscles and most likely an increase in lubrication. Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Be warned: women can have much longer orgasms than men and can experience waves of orgasms that last several minutes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.

Remember that every woman's body is different. What one woman loves, another woman hates. Talk to your partner about what she likes and dislikes. The more comfortable you are discussing cunnilingus, the more you'll enjoy performing it, but the best way to excel at cunnilingus is lots of practice. Fortunately, your partner should be more than happy to help out.

Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. Oral sex done right can take your partner to new heights of pleasure and ecstasy! However, cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring technique, practice, and knowledge to get it right. To discover the forgotten oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she's never had an orgasm before!, click here.

The 4 Best Positions for G-Spot Massage

The G-Spot is the focal point of female sexual arousal. The G-spot lies about 2 inches inside the vagina behind the front wall of the vagina. It is a tiny, bean-shaped area which swells and can become as large as a quarter when stimulated, though, actually, the aroused G-spot's size varies considerably from woman to woman. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Try these four positions for G-spot massage.

1) Woman upright on her knees with the man in front of her is the best position to use when trying to find her G-spot for the first time.

2) Woman on her back with the man between her legs is also a great position for G-spot massage. This position allows easy access to the clitoris, G-spot, and, at the same time, you are able to view your partner's reactions to your stimulation. This video demonstrates this position.

3) The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm for the first time. This position provides the physical closeness and emotional security that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her, and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

4) The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulating for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derrière. In any position from behind the woman, the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the G-spot because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

Many women report that they can have an orgasm from stimulation of the G-spot alone. Some women also report that orgasms arising from G-spot stimulation are more intense, deeper, more "whole body." A few women even say they ejaculate. Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. It is also true that the intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can't satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she'll BEG you to get naked? On the other hand, if you become a virtuoso lover, one that can make her entire body quiver with pleasure, then she will be wanting your hot flesh up against her ALL THE TIME. To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don't have a big penis, a great body, and even if she's never had an orgasm before, click here.

Use the Friction Zone to Bring a Woman to Orgasm during Intercourse

Studies reveal that only about 28% of women reach orgasm from sexual intercourse alone. There are two main reasons for that statistic. First of all, it takes most women far longer than men to become fully aroused - as long as a half-hour in many cases. Women take an average of twenty minutes to reach orgasm, and for many women, it can take up to a half-hour or more of sustained stimulation to move into orgasmic range.

Another reason that only 28% of women experience orgasm regularly during vaginal intercourse is because they don't get enough direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm. The Friction Zone Technique can often give women orgasms during intercourse who have never had them before. This thrusting technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region (the area right above the pubic bone), which we'll call the Friction Zone. To perform the Friction Zone Technique, follow the steps below:

1) Make sure that the woman's clitoris and upper vaginal area are well-lubricated with her own juices, saliva, lubricant, etc. The man should be on top.

2) The woman should spread her vaginal lips with her hands. When she does this, the man should put his penis in up to the base and rest the Friction Zone on her clitoris.

3) The man should put his weight on her body, and then reach down, grab her butt cheeks, and spread them apart.

4) Then the man should start sliding up and down on her, NOT in and out. His penis should remain completely inside her all the way to the base, right at the pubic bone as he moves. To do this, he will need to grab her shoulders or the edge of the bed with both hands and push off with his toes as well. As he does all of this, make sure that the greatest friction is where the Friction Zone and the clitoris meet. This might all sound really complicated, but it is actually very easy.

5) Keep moving and try not to break the friction. Continue until she has at least one orgasm.

The Friction Zone Technique is not physically tiring or overly stimulating for the man, so most men can continue intercourse long enough for their partners to have an orgasm. The Friction Zone Technique is also ideal to use following another sex position or thrusting technique when the man needs a breather, but the woman doesn't want to stop. The intimate contact and pleasurable stimulation of the Friction Zone Technique are sure to make it a favorite in many couples' lovemaking repertoire.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can't satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she'll BEG you to get naked? On the other hand, if you become a virtuoso lover, one that can make her entire body quiver with pleasure, then she will be wanting your hot flesh up against her ALL THE TIME. To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don't have a big penis, a great body, and even if she's never had an orgasm before, click here.

Tease Her to Please Her

Studies reveal that only about 28% of women reach orgasm during from sexual intercourse alone. Women take an average of twenty minutes to reach orgasm, and for many women, it can take up to a half-hour or more of sustained stimulation to move into orgasmic range. Seducing and being seduced, teasing and being teased, create sexual excitement in women. The following sexual technique will both tease her and please her. It works by SLOWLY increasing physical stimulation, thereby creating almost unbearable sexual desire and tension.

The basis of the technique is that the man teases his partner with his penis until she is BEGGING him to put it in her. Then he slowly enters her an inch at a time until he teases an orgasm out of her. Here are the specifics:

1) After your partner is highly aroused and lubricated from foreplay, gently rub her clitoris with the head of your penis. Every once in a while, tease the opening of her vagina with the head of your penis. After a few minutes of this, she will be simmering with desire, but you want her boiling so keep on teasing.

2) She will ask you to put it in. DON'T PUT IT IN YET! Keep teasing and talking to her. Tell her how beautiful her vagina is. Ask her if she wants your penis inside her. Ask her how badly she wants it as you keep teasing her with your penis. After a few more minutes of this she will be climbing the walls and boiling with desire.

3) When she really can't stand it any longer, start rubbing the opening of her vagina with the head of your penis for about a minute or so. Then slide only the head in and very slowly thrust in and out with only the head of your penis. She will be begging for you to put it in deeper!

4) Slide it in one more inch, and then thrust slowly in and out, but only to this same depth. Keep talking to her while you do this. Ask her if she likes your penis inside her, tell her how much you like making love to her and how good her vagina feels. This verbal teasing is just as important to building her excitement as the physical teasing.

5) After a couple of more minutes, slide your penis in one more inch, and then thrust slowly in and out to this same depth.

6) Repeat step 5 until you are almost at your full length, but don't put it all the way in until she starts having an orgasm.

7) Once she starts having an orgasm, you may start thrusting more vigorously, or move on to a different technique.

Sexual intercourse with this technique may lead to a long night of lovemaking since a woman's orgasm does not usually signal the end of her sexual arousal. To the contrary, an orgasm in a woman can even lead to INCREASED arousal. Men who both tease AND please often get asked for an encore and invited back for a repeat performance.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can't satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she'll BEG you to get naked? On the other hand, if you become a virtuoso lover, one that can make her entire body quiver with pleasure, then she will be wanting your hot flesh up against her ALL THE TIME. To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don't have a big penis, a great body, and even if she's never had an orgasm before, click here.

Book Review: Lick by Lick (Cunnilingus)

Did you know that for most women, cunnilingus (oral sex) is their preferred sexual act? A recent study showed that twice as many women orgasm from oral sex as from intercourse. However, with over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, you need to know exactly what you're doing before poking your tongue around there. Otherwise, it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood for her.

OPRAH! love expert Michael Webb has written a new book Lick by Lick: How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More. After reading the guide for a few minutes, I was pleasantly surprised by the in-depth detail woven into this book. It covered getting a woman comfortable with the oral sex, persuasive suggestions to make her shave, safety precautions, positions, and, my favorite section, many basic and advanced techniques.

When it comes to cunnilingus, I know what I like (and don't like), but I'm no expert on how to give it. I gave this book to my lover and told him to study it because there was going to be a test. He wound up passing with flying colors. A couple of the techniques in this book gave me some oral sensations that I've never experienced before!

Cunnilingus performed well will endear you to your woman like nothing else can. All in all, Lick by Lick gives a man the complete knowledge he needs to make his woman reach orgasm from oral sex.

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